One of the reasons that couples remain unmarried for a long period of time is because it isn’t cheap and it isn’t easy?

Cost

Cost is very important and it seems to me that it is the first thing that pops into my head. Perhaps this is because I am male and do not need to see the point in paying out thousands of pounds for one day of people making a fool out of themselevs marquees. This is a big commitment to make which is why marriage has such a big appeal. You could perhaps (if you are lucky) get a bit of help from the in laws when it comes to paying for the marriage.

Venue

Where is this huge event of your life going to be held? Are you going to marquees rent or perhaps go for the more traditional Church wedding? I would always recommend the one that is best suited for you as this is the one that is going to make you the happiest. Ladies need to note that although this is often classed as your big day, the groom should have a chance to discuss everything also, he is after all the second most important person of the day and he might not want to get married under traditional marquees.

Of course it isn’t just the cost and venue that you need to worry about but the organisation of it all too. Who are you going to invite to this wedding, this is actually a very important decision to maake. Then of course comes the honeymoon, where are you going to be going and who is paying?

Just sitting down as a couple and talking it all out is the best thing to do really.